December 2011
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hapahappyhour asked: Hi! I seriously enjoyed reading how you defended Lady Gaga. I'm not a huge fan of her music, per say, but I do love the kind of person she is and that her songs are profound and that they are not just irrelevant sentences put together to try to get extra money. I don't think that she is racist at all. Those words are even derogatory anymore, lol. Just like how everyone says the...
strandedontheglitterway asked: thank you, thank you, thank you. your utter defense of gaga has made my night, as well as your answer to why you love her so much. just wanted to let you know that not all your followers are haters :)
unnecessaryemotion asked: No, I'm pointing out her obvious and detrimental flaws. As long as she's morally corrupt and privilege denying, I will actively argue with her fans. I'm glad that my opinions aren't deep seated in ignorance.
unnecessaryemotion asked: There's still the issue of her being ableist and racist that completely disgusts me. I can't feel any type of connection to someone that openly disregards those that are disabled and/or not white. Also, she was raised on the Upper West Side and went to a private school that was mostly white. She upholds whiteness, regardless of whether or not you want to deny that.
unnecessaryemotion asked: She uses the words "orient" and "chola" in her lyrics, has used the word "retarded" multiple times, and uses wheelchairs in her performances (to name a few things). Also, she's white, cisgendered, upper class, able bodied, and not queer at all. I just have a serious problem with her claiming that she represents EVERYONE when I'm Boricua, transgendered,...
unnecessaryemotion asked: I'll have to disagree with the idea that Gaga is some all-knowing goddess that protects the queer community. I don't think it's quite right that she's said ableist, racist things and then insists she's a queer ally. That she claims she's an ally is another huge problem--you're not supposed to dub yourself one, the community is supposed to label you as such. She...
Anonymous asked: I honestly think you're so sweet. You answer anyone's and everyone's questions so politely! You seem like such a genuinely nice person. It's refreshing (: you're amazing, keep it up!
this-iswhereiscreamfrom asked: I used to dislike Lady GaGa, I found her tacky and attention craving. After I saw a video claiming she was 'using the queers' to reach higher places I dug deeper and learned about her. I found out how wrong I was and your post on why she's so important to you made me feel like a complete hypocrite because I pride myself on being unusual. She really is an extraordinary being, I now...
justaboywithbigdreams asked: That last post made me cry, but in a good way. <3 Stay strong no matter what those assholes say!
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unnecessaryemotion asked: Can you please explain why you love Lady Gaga so much?
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Anonymous asked: stupid question haha, is there a difference between being queer and being gay?
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Anonymous asked: You seriously have NO idea how much I am in love with your blog. <3 :D
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Anonymous asked: I'm bisexual and alot of kids at school know but im not sure how to tell my parents or if i even should yet, my mother is very judgeing & is a total homophob. Any advice?
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swaggywhale asked: Did someone just ask if you were gay? *looks over blog* your blog is called Whyilovebeinggay, your picture is a rainbow flag, your background image is of Lady Gaga holding a rainbow flag (well partially), and your header says 'Go Fags'. No you're not gay, you're the straightest thing around. You're straight like a rainbow. haha
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Anonymous asked: Are you gay?
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rickmynippre asked: can i ask a question that will be replied to via inbox and not posted? thanks.
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Anonymous asked: HELP. My girlfriend and I have been dating of for a little over a year and a half. She is gay but I am not sure if I am. I am completely in love with her but I am not attracted to many girls. I would never really want to be in a relationship with a guy, even though I have never been a serious relationship with a guy. Any advice?
...plus i'm a little monster. i'm going to find a...
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Anonymous asked: Why is Lady Gaga your background?
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Anonymous asked: What would you do if your best friend came out as straight :O
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loki-iago asked: Aw I wish some of these were for queer folks--I like so many of these but do not identify as homosexual.
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Oh and while I have your attention...
Go submit. ;)
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Submit submit submit!
Click here to submit why you love being gay.
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cowgirls-and-indians asked: I love this blog so much!
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Submit why you love being gay! →
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your-legs asked: omg seriously this blog is perfect I mean, the "go fags" the background and of course, the posts are awesome! love it!
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